insensitive remarks from husband's grandma

hi anyone encountered remarks abt 'u seem to have became fat' after giving birth for >6 months? my husband's grandma made such insensitive remarks and its really uncalled for. how would you dealt w it if you're in my shoes? don't attend any occasions when she is there lest she made such remarks again? or?

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I will ignore her remarks as well.. too many insensitive ppl ard who will say such things (including those who did not give birth but still fat like me!)... frankly speaking this would be one of the lower tier remarks u will hear... there are worse remarks out there from brainless ppl.. and dun get me started on their brainless actions too (eg feeding infant hard cracker and giggling away, or saying feed baby one mouth of coffee, or saying baby very pathetic cannot eat the food on table or that the Solids we giving too little... then on separate occasion claim tat baby is full le while we only started feeding)... yup so I would say this is mild remark... esp from old folks they got nth better to comment on so we have to just ignore them and be the bigger (no pun intended) person! 😊

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