insensitive remarks from husband's grandma

hi anyone encountered remarks abt 'u seem to have became fat' after giving birth for >6 months? my husband's grandma made such insensitive remarks and its really uncalled for. how would you dealt w it if you're in my shoes? don't attend any occasions when she is there lest she made such remarks again? or?

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I would say “it’s because my husband is feeding me well, thank you for paying so much attention to my weight”. The thing about people is that, if they’re trying to bring you down, the more affected you are, the happier they are and overtime it might lead to harsher comments. Show her that it doesn’t affect you and she’s the joke instead. No one can put you down unless you allowed yourself to be. 💪🏻

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