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baby 4bulan tengok fone..

kita mmg xkasi screen time utk baby.. selasa ritu baru je lagi.. kita balik kerja.. dah siap2 mandi semua.. nampak miL kasi ank kita tgok fone.. yup jarak dekat mcm org besar.. time amek anak atas katil dia tu.. terus saya ckp " jangan tengok fone dekat2 mcm tu, kang xpasal2 kecik2 dah pakai spec, xnak", sambil amek anak.. keluar bilik dia.. anak suke tgok video diri dia sendiri.. baba nyer record.. tpi.. MIL bkn kasi dia tgok yg itu.. cite ape tah.. tpi dekat.. even tho sy kasi tgok video diri dia sendiri pun.. sy sedepa tgan.. mmg jarak tinggi & jauh.. sy tak tahu laa kot MiL terasa laa ark sy ckp mcm tu ke ape.. tpi sy xpeduli.. anak saya.. rule sy.. dia bole je nk main2 dgn bdk tu.. tpi tgok fone xbole.. enta bape kali tah dia kasi tgok fone agaknyer tanpa sy tahu.. even dia letak anak dpn tv.. ( tv kecik).. jarak pun dkt jugak.. wlopun anak ddk dlm coat dia.. bygkan baby coat yg bole gerak tu, ade rak pjg, tv plasma yg kecik.. bby coat tu dia rapatkan kt rak tv tu.. mmg dkt tau.. bpe pjg je pun bby coat tu.. tpi masih dekat jugak bagi sy.. dia nk terasa ape yg sy ckp.. ikut laa.. bkn masalah sy.. dgn xjage wide window bdk tu lgi.. mmg laa bdk tu nak main je skg ni.. tpi tiap kali bgun tdo.. mesti dia xsusu kan dlu.. ade laa 1kali tu.. kita balik. kerja awal.. lps mandi kan bby.. dia ngamuk2.. igt nk tdo.. & igt da susu.. rupanyer tak lg... ouhh ye.. selasa tu.. dia balik bawak anak sy.. since sy. kne tgal rumah dia 3bln sbb xnk kasi bby kt pengasuh lagi.. barang baby ade yg tertinggal.. berus botol susu, pelapik plastik mandi dia tu, susu baki dlm tapawer.. tertinggal.. disbbkan sy balik kerja nk cuci pump.. tanye mane berus xbawak tinggal.. suami balik. kerja( tgal rumah lg satu ) suami ckp pelapik dia tinggal.. Mil lgsg xde ckp pasal brg lain yg tertinggal.. infom kt sy pun tidak.. xde rase nk patah balik.. bile sy ckp kt suami.. igt berus je tgal.. tgok2 2 lg bende tinggal jugak.. pastu dia.. kate takpela jumaat bawak laa.. sy kate ape takpe... sbb nyer.. haritu sy tertinggal bantal peluk anak utk tdo.. suami marah sy knp sy tertinggal.. knp dia xmarah mak dia tertinggal barang anak dia.. benggang laa sy.. aku ko marah beria.. mak ko tgal kan brg yg paling2 penting nk guna.. ko ckp xpela. . geram jer.. done luah #luahperasaan#sharepengalaman

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Hai mama, aku faham geram sangat tu, memang jadi gitu lah bila orang lain tak respect boundary kita pasal anak, lagi-lagi isu screen time yang kita serious ambil. Empati juga dengan suami mu yang macam berat sebelah dapat marah kau tapi tak marah mak dia padahal forgotten items tu memang penting untuk anak kau; tu memang boleh buat hati terasa sakit sikit kan. Tapi mama, maybe kau mungkin perlu cakap sekali lagi dengan suami, bukan dalam marah, tapi calm dan clear, pasal expectations kau dengan MIL, sebab kalau dia faham dah betul-betul, dia boleh jadi buffer antara kau dengan mak dia. MIL tu mungkin memang nak tolong, tapi cara dia lain dari cara kau nak jaga anak. Jangan lagi simpan marah dalam hati ye, nanti jadi toxic. Yang paling penting sekarang adalah consistency kau dan suami dalam set rules untuk anak, sebab kalau dia tengok signal mixed dari orang dewasa, dia akan confuse je. Kau dah buat yang terbaik dengan jelaskan pasal mata dan screen time, takyah rasa bersalah pasal tu. Lagipun, baby 4 bulan lagi lembut mata dia, jadi concern kau tu valid je. Jaga diri kau ye mama, stress bukit macam ni mesti exhausting.
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breast tak bengkak susu lps berurut.. picit ade susu tpi xbanyak. pantang 23 hari sudah..

kita berurut untuk lepas pantang 3hari.. selalu nyer sblum mula berurut tu ( hari2 lain) selalu rase breast padat nk2 bengkak mcm tu.. kdg rase susu menitis2 sikit.. tpi sejak seminggu ni.. breast rase kosong.. padat pun tidak.. susu ade bile picit.. bile pump xsampai 1oz.. utk dua2 belah.. marmet pun same.. bile baby feeding.. sy xtahu dia cukup ke tak.. kdg raSe dia xkenyang.. kita minum air pun byk.. mkn dah mcm2.. pump still gitu.. sblum ni ade jugak laa 1 breast dpt 2oz.. tu pun sbb dah rase padat sgt.. skg ni kita dah pantang 23 hari.. masih x banyak susu.. #askmommies #mohonbantujawabbunda #First_Baby #firstTime_mom

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Cervix Polyp

Kes sy : Khamis 20/11.. balik daripada kerja petang dlm pukul 5.50ptg .. kita pegi laa toilet nak buang air besar.. dah lega.. kita masuk bilik rest sbb penat drive & sementara nk menunggu masak dinner. Khamis 6.15ptg bangun pegi toilet.. elok ja nak buang air.. tengok2 kat pantyliner ade merah.. fresh blood gitu.. kita panic laa.. tgu laa suami balik & cerita.. Lps magrib terus g klinik swasta.. check condition dlu. Doc kate baby okey, heartbeat ade, uri dlm keadaan baik.. doc kasi ubat. Kuatkan rahim Lepas tu blood tu hilang ya.. Jumaat : darah tu xde keluar ( whole day) maybe sbb rest kt rumah. Sabtu.. keluar.. balik rumah mak & jalan2 .. petang , ade sikit keluar xbyk.. Ahad : takde keluar Isnin : lunch ade keluar sikit. ( Masih abaikan lagi) Selasa 25/11 : pkul 10.25 pegi toilet nak buang air, elok ja nak bangun.. tgok air kt jamban, keruh merah, kita da pakai seluar... Bukak balik check kt pantyliner.. nahh yes ade balik bleeding.. 1/4 pantyliner .. selebihnyer dah masuk air time buang tu.. Terus rush balik rumah, of coz panic.. bgthu suami.. suami pun balik.. bawak terus PAC.. doc check guna smear.. tgok2 ade polyp.. kt cervix.. dlm 2cm okey xsilap( according yg dia tulis) terus dia keluar kan time smear tu jugak.. kne rest 1jam.. doc ckp dia.bkn cancer .. dia ketumbuhan.. yg ade kt cervix... Mcm extra isi mcm tu.. tu yg buat bleeding tu.. even klo bersama pun bole bleeding.. masalahnyer kita time pregnant ni mmg xbersama lgsg.. idk kne dia ade.. So kne laa jumpe doc lg kt hospital nty.. utk check up😅😅..

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Kak, first of all please don't panic, cervix polyp during pregnancy memang boleh cause bleeding like that, and it's actually more common than we think. From what I've heard, the tricky part is that removing it during pregnancy does carry some risk of preterm labour, especially if it's done before 10 weeks, so it's really good that your doctor already took it out and is monitoring you closely. My neighbour went through something similar and her O&G specialist chose to just observe rather than remove, because apparently leaving it can sometimes be safer depending on the size and how much bleeding there is, so different doctors may advise differently, and that's normal. The most important thing now is to follow up at the hospital as your doctor suggested, rest well, and avoid anything strenuous, and do share all the bleeding history (dates, amount, colour) with the specialist so they can assess properly. Please do check with your own O&G doctor lah, as each pregnancy is different and they will know best what is right for your specific situation, take care, Kak, and wishing you and baby a smooth journey ahead.
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17 week bleeding, mcm awal2 period, cuma xlama,dlm 15-20min & dia sikit. But still merah mcm period

Khamis lepas 20/11... Balik kerja petang dlm 5.45ptg.. sampai rumah nak pegi toilet popo.. so popo laa mcm biase.. ( time ni xde lagi).. pastu settle masuk bilik baring sementara nak tunggu masak.. 6.15ptg mcm tu , pegi toilet balik nak.buang air.. ehh tau2 kat pantyliner ade bleeding mcm nk awal2 period.. cuma xpenuh & sikit ( dlm suku pad tu).. tunggu husb balik cerita ke dia.. kiteorg pegi klinik dlu.. tgok ape yg patut.. time tu pun pakai liner yg bru, cuma merah dah xde.. check.. doc kate baby okey, still gerak.. heartbeat okey.. doc kasi ubat kuat kan rahim lagi & klo ade lagi terus ke PAC.. lepas makan ubat, dah xde dah.. Padahal pagi ke ptg sblum balik kt tempat kerja, kerja mmg byk jalan tpi klo sy tga buat brg mesti akan duduk wlopun bru buat 3 item , xde cramp2 kt bawah perut apa2.. cuma nk bangun dr kerusi, klo nk berdiri ja seksa sikit.. Sape2 ade pengalaman mcm ni tak? #Needadvice #askingmom #FTM

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Alhamdulillah, lega dengar baby still okay and heartbeat ada, that is the most important thing. Spotting masa pregnant memang boleh berlaku untuk pelbagai sebab, especially kalau banyak aktiviti berdiri dan berjalan seperti yang you cerita, and the fact that it stopped after medication is a reassuring sign. My friend had something similar around her second trimester, bright red spotting that lasted only a short while, and her doctor explained that sometimes the womb just needs extra support, especially when we are on our feet a lot. Do continue the medication as prescribed, rest as much as you can, and please do not hesitate to go straight to PAC if the bleeding comes back or if you feel any cramping, just to be safe. Always best to follow up closely with your own doctor or specialist, as every pregnancy is different and they know your case best, take care of yourself, dear.
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HB LOW ke mcm ni

Tengah hari tadi kita beli brg,nak jadikan cerita masa nk beratur byr. Line panjang.. so kite menunggu lA dgn suami... Berdiri dlm 15-25min.. gitu kepala rasa pening.... Kita pun rase mcm nk tumbang... Bibir da start rase sejuk.. seram sejuk bdn... Terus suami kasi kunci kete.. masuk kete.. nk pegi kereta pun terhoyong hayang.. kita bru 10 week.. 10/10 nty bru nak pegi klinik bukak buku pink.. 8week ritu dah mase buat repeat scan . HB doc ckp okey...obimin pun dia kasi utk makan ,tambah darah. #firsttimemom #Hblow #Needadvice #pregnancy

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9 week pregnant

harini.. kitaa mkn sikit tpi kerap2 mcm biase.. tau2 muntah balik🥲 makan biskut muntah, makan roti muntah.. makan pisang pun muntah 🥲🥲.. harini mmg badan lemau sgt.. ##firsttimemom

Sayang, jangan risau, ramai mums yang lalui exactly this at 9 weeks, sebab itulah peak time for the hormones to go haywire! Someone in my mum group mentioned that makan dalam kuantiti yang sangat kecil setiap 1, 2 jam (like half a cracker, bukan one whole serving) helped more than the usual "sikit tapi kerap" approach, because even a small amount sitting too long can trigger the vomiting reflex. Yang penting, cuba perhatikan temperature of your food too, sometimes warm or strong-smelling foods make it worse, so cold or room-temperature options like plain cold water with a slice of lemon or chilled plain crackers might sit a little better. Do rest as much as you can, badan lemau tu is your body working very hard for baby, and it usually does ease after the first trimester, insyaAllah. That said, since you're vomiting everything including plain foods, it is really worth checking in with your doctor soon just to make sure you're staying well-hydrated and baby is getting what she or he needs.
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HCG naik double mcm ni..

Hi semua . Selamat pagi.. Nak tanye.. kalo bacaan HCG mcm ni.. positive ke ehh?? Ke yg blah depan line tu yg akan pekat?? Dlm 2-3 harini ade laa check opk.. & nk habis kan opk tu.. tau2 naik pekat mcm ovulation.. Klo sy check HCG.. jarang mcm ni naik nyer.. Period patut nyer harini 23/8/25 / esk or lusa paling lambat.. #Needadvice #pregnancy #AskingAsAMom #firsttimemom

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HCG naik double mcm ni..
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Delay period 5 hari ,jarang gini selalu 3hari delay je.. pastu da start period mcm biase

Hi helo... Minggu ni sepatutnyer period ( start 18/6) .. tapi skg dah delay dlm 5hari..smlm hari ke4 petang2 gitu, sy ade rase cramp2 sikit kt perut. Mcm nk sengugut.. tapi rase dia light jaa.. pastu hilang.. malam pun same kejap & hilang.. sy dah standby pakai pad kot2 bagun2 tdo ade merah...pastu pagi tadi mase nk mandi , buang air.. ade mcm lendir merah kecik halus ja. Tpi kt pad pagi tadi( 23/6) tu xde kosong.. Selalu nyer laa period sy delay takat 3hari ja then pastu period mcm biase.. Ade pengalaman tak gini / or mcm mne nk buat.. taknak beli UPT lgi.. takut kecewa #Sharingdong_Bund #AskingAsAMom #perioddelay#Needadvice

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Miss period 3hari

Harini ja da delay period 2/ 3 hari😅. Xpernah laa delay period gini.. paling kurang pun smlm da period.. klo nk start period mesti ade kesan kt pantiliner , xpun mase buang air ade keluar lendir darah sekali.. ini lendir pun mcm lendir putih ja.. Nak kate ade symptoms pregnant.. xde rase ape2 perubahan pun.. check upt -ve. Tak nak chek upt lgi sekali kang kiciwa pulak😭 ..#Needadvice #mohonbantujawabbunda #bantujawab #delayperiod

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Kene selsema/ hidung tersumbat.

Hi.. nak tanye ade ke sape2 yg time dia dapat tahu dia pregnant, ... Ade tak yg kne selsema or hidung tersumbat.?.. ade kaitan ke takde kaitan.. hidung tersumbat selsema sampai susah nk tdo.. ##sharing ##bantujawab #Needadvice #ingintahu

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