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Would you be offended if your hubby let his business partner (lady) stay in your house for 2 wk?

Yes i will be too. Ask him to put himself in your shoes. What if you let a man stay in your house for 2 weeks? All your privacy is gone & you need to be extra careful with what you do in your own house. Ask him to rent a room for her or whatever. But not let her stay in your house.

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I'm going through a divorce and have a 1 year old son who is still breastfeeding. My husband just told me he wants the custody of my son when he cannot even make clever decisions for him. To him, spending time with his son means lying in bed together and playing iPad / watching YouTube. Do note my husband makes terrible plans and has bad manners such as eating loudly in public and is very lazy. After marriage he gained 20kg due to his lazines within 1 year. The only thing is, he has a high income. He say he will fight with me in court. I am planning to get a full time job and hire a helper to take care of my son so i can take care of us financially. What are my chances of getting full custody?

It should be joint custody . U would need to fight for the care and control . Most of the cases the mother will get it . If he earns a lot more , best. Get more alimony from him . U can start to calculate your child's expenses , when child starts schools etc expenses .

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For dads, is it true that all men can't pick up implied messages from their wives? My hubby and I argue about this a lot. I'm not used to bluntly pointing out his mistakes and he doesn't like it when I get mad and not tell him the reason/s why.. I get frustrated when he tells me men can't catch understatements

Can't you tell him nicely.. Use the Sandwich approach to avoid hostility

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anything to take note of bringing a infant overseas on a long journey? be it by car or by plane.. thanks in advance.

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I'm expecting my 1st in Aug and my dad has gladly volunteered to take care of my baby after my maternity leave. The plan is to bring my baby to their place before I go to work and pick baby up after. My step-mom however, is not very happy about it and insists that I hire a helper for them at their house, as I will be able to qualify for subsidied levy. (But i'm not comfortable with having a helper around a 4 mth old) What should I do? Infant care? Really consider hiring a helper? What would you do if you're in my shoes?

Actually i would prefer hiring a helper to help up my mom with caring for my baby. If not it will be too taxing on my parents.

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any mummies feel "turn off" if ur hubby says he wanna get u pregnant again during sex after you just gave birth not long ago? -feeling this way as im currently feeling worn out with 2 already-

If he says it like that, it is a total turn off. Maybe for some it is ok

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It's been 3 months to my delivery. My husband wants us to resume our sex life, but I am not ready. How do I convince him to wait it out?

Tell your husband that your body and mind are still not ready for sex. You can cuddle and sleep. Tell him you still feel weak and exhausted and sore. Give him a surprise once you are ready!

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Would you rather go for a short getaway to neighboring countries (with a toddler along) over the weekend or go for a romantic dinner night out for 2 to celebrate your wedding anniversary? I am a ftwm so weekends are very precious to me

Both are good. But keep the toddler home. I think couples do need time to rejuvenate. Your child is also learning to be wo you. That's not a bad thing. Go for a weekend getaway and have Romantic dinner there without the toddler. Hope you can find a baby sitter!

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Is it suitable to bring a 4months old baby to genting, malaysia? My in law wanted to bring us for holiday but im not sure if just a 4months old baby able to cope the long journey and the environment there.

I brought eldest go Genting during feb 2007, when he is 4months old. Most important milk powder must bring enough or else have problem buying over there

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What did you give your hubby for his first Father's Day?

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