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Have u ever wondered why you are hanging on to the marriage even it's meaningless hanging on.

Depends. Could be out of love or coz you're too dependent on the person? Why don't you have a heart to heart talk? Think through especially if you have children :')

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Where did you meet your spouse

Throwback question: where did you meet your spouse? I met mine while organizing a tech start up event. I recruited him to be part of the panel of speakers. :)

i also knew my hubby when we were in primary school. we got together when we met up again after poly graduation. we were together for 5 years and 7 years of wedding with 2 kids age 6 and 4.

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Dear mommiies & daddies, a question about 《SEX》In marriage. How important does 《SEX》play a part in a marriage? Can both stay together without《SEX》? I've been undergoing 《SEXLESS》marriage almost 6mths. Even i initial the first step my husband will give lots of excuses or reasons to back up the 《SEXLESS》with me. Even i try to talk to him, he'll tell me no or nothing else. I'm really getting tired & fed up in such relationship. Simply don't feel as a couple. Last week, we ever try to move on who know everything back to NONE!!! I feel hurt feel neglect. And that day i meet my a guy friend of mine. He try to start handky panky with me. Instead of stopping him i NEVER. I know i should'nt do that but i really feel good. And the other way HATE whenever i see or think of my husband at home. Always say tired don't even involve handle ours child or the family yet always say tired. Btw, he working 5days job with office hours. This is simply not acceptable for a 《SEXLESS》relationship. I told my friend about it, they say to me he might have a affair so "tired" to perform. Really tired of trying or keep giving him chances to hurt or neglect me.

Talk to him about it . Tell him about how you feel , and ask him why is he rejecting .

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Are the essential oils used in aromatic products bad/poisoning?

Hello Pamela, contrary to their popular use now, over-exposure to essential oils is actually more harmful than we realise. Here are a few ways they are actually harmful: 1. Long term use of products containing essential oils can cause skin discolouration as well as burning sensation. In fact, it can increase tanning if you're stepping out in the sun after using an essential oil based product. 2. If you're already suffering from some health condition, even sniffing a little amount of essential oil can lead to severe side effects. Various essential oils can react differently to your already existing condition, so be careful. 3. Essential oils are extremely concentrated, so you have to know how much to dilute before using a specific oil (and the amount may vary from oil to oil). Also - it can be fatal if taken orally. I love using essential oils too, but just be careful and always keep them away from your child's and pet's reach.

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My husband is a busy man and since am pregnant, I want him to be more involved with the pregnancy. How can I make him more involved?

Whenever he is around, talk to him about how you feel, what physical changes are you experiencing. Always make sure that you go with him to visit your doctor. Going to the doctor for regular check-ups will make him feel part of the whole journey. Once in a while if he misses it, is fine. Discuss everything with him, right from the baby shower to making a nursery. There are innumerable ideas on the Internet that you can explore. On and off instead of doing things all on your own, give him the responsibility of getting things done for you, for example; getting your medicine or getting a big-size dress. When he gets time go for outings and take a stroll hand-in-hand and talk about how things.

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My SIL and I just do not get along that well and are mostly formal with each other. But now that I am pregnant, I want things to be good for my baby in the future. How do I initiate a discussion with her?

Find something the both of you like to do and do it together. Maybe go baby shopping together? Go for lunches and just hang out together. Start small, have regular dates and I'm sure the bond of sisterhood will grow :) good luck!

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My 5yo boy loves playing with dolls and makeup and my husband is against it. How do I get him to understand the soft side of my boy? They are not getting along because of this.

the only way to make your husband understand is by talking to him and explaining that everyone has different feelings and a different way of expressing their emotions. if your boy is not interested in the typical boy toys but likes dolls and makeup, it is just his way of appreciating beauty and aesthetics. if your husband tries to force him to hide his feelings, it can later come out in negative ways and your son can become depressed or even aggressive. do talk to him.

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My husband does not interact with my daughter that much and is always watching TV. how do I explain her that it is important for him to spend time with her as well?

I agree with what Debolina suggested. Get the family out of the house. Go to the playground. Perhaps your husband can teach your daughter something, cycling or swimming or some sports (not sure what your husband and daughter may enjoy). Anyway, can also highlight the fact the lack of communication to your husband. He may not realize that he has not been actively engaging your daughter.

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My mother-in-law keeps on critising me. how do I tell her politely to not do that?

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unfortunately there's no way to stop my own mother 😓

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I have been married for over 3 years now, but I still feel no love for my husband. Plus, he gets extremely agitated and sometimes even violent if I merely refer to his parents. I feel trapped in this relationship that is clearly not going anywhere! What should I do?

Try talking to him when he is in a calmer mood. Of course, such persons never realize their mistakes and justify their anger. Tell him that a relationship doesn't work this way. If he still doesn't change his behavior, then there is no point in continuing with this marriage. Think it over!

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