Empty marriage with no live and love
I have a prefect husband in people eye . Does house hold chore,took care of kids,handle all adminstration work . However that all he does . He will tell all his friend how bad I'm as a mom who can't cleanup after myself , and unable to trust me with my kids alone. I felt bad hearing that . He don't bother to share with me any thing about his life ,our conversation is about kids and admistative related .When I try to share a bit more , he already feel bored and irritated .If I ask about how his day. He always say OK . When I ask more he will walk away .If I message him he don't bother to reply unless is nessary. He doesn't need me at all aside for my mother duty . My income to sustain the household expenses . Me as a person to show he is a gd hub and he have a perfect family .I m so tired of pretending everything is fine. There's no love or affection . I don't know why i need to be in a marriage where the partner don't need me at all .I am staying in the marriage BC of kids . I don't know what to do . I tried ask him for Marriage counsel he said no . I went for counseling myself to try to improve the situation however it's really took 2 hand to clap . St this moment I really felt I don't need him in my life . I can hire a helper and PA to handle all the duty he is doing. I really wanted to change this . I don't think marriage can just hold by kids . Marriage is more that doing a households chores and administration work. Help I am desperate and I don't know what to do . Sorry for the long post . #advicepls #pleasehelp
Đọc thêmHello Mummies, I'm a first time mom. and its just been 1 month plus since i gave birth to a cute baby boy.. Unfortunately due to financial reasons I had start working soon after as to assist my husband financially. And on top of that i'm taking a part time diploma which starts after work. Hence, we place my LO with his grandparents. Here's the thing. me and my inlaws stay far apart so at most of the weekdays we will let my LO sleepover at their place. but i realised that whenever we bring him back during the weekends he will start crying really badly that im so scared that he might get seizures. And as a mother i feel devastated, my in laws said he rarely cries when he is at their place. So i'm guessing that he isnt comfortable at his own home and prefers to be there. Which made me feel sad and distant from my LO. i cry at night when he isnt around. i just dont know what to do. what if he grows to not love me.. all the thoughts starts to pop in my mind. I'm scared that this might lead to depression. i dont know what to do. am i a bad mother? has anyone else left their 1 month old child to start working? is working this early a good idea?#advicepls #1stimemom #firstbaby
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