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Hello Mummies, I have a 2 year old toodler who keeps on throwing tantrums whenever she dont get the things she wants. She would throw herself on the floor, rub her knees on the floor, put her face on the floor and non stop crying until we give in. We tried methods like threatening her with a cane or walking away or avoid eye contact with her. We tried telling her nicely and in a firm tone but obviously it didnt work. We also tried to give her space to cry as in to vent and we just sat there to watch her but what really make me angry is when she hurt herself like throwing herself backwards and the back of the head hits the floor. Can any fellow mummies share your advise? Is she going the terrible two phase? I am a FTM here.

Try to distract them with something. It usually works for my child (but not everytime). Play songs, give them something ‘new’ / different. I read somewhere that this will help them forget why they even throw tantrum in the first place.

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Weaning time, self cook or jar or mix?

Hihi,dr have a go for my baby to try puree. I tried to make but felt tiring. Dr says not gd to make alot to store. May I ask,what u all usually do? Thankss :)

Super Mom

I usually use ice cube trays to store :) saves on time. Hubby and I would make it on the weekends for the week and we give them a variety of different purées.

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What to I give to make my toddler gain weight ?

My toddler is 27 months now but she is very thin , I am worried as to what can I give her to boost her appetite or to make her gain weight ? mummies , do suggest the best weight gaining vitamins or appetite booster !! Thank u !! #pleasehelp #advicepls

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try consulting your pedia. pediasure milk is good and vitamins food supplement.

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I am exhausted. Sometimes i asked myself if i'm good enough to be a mother. I don't know what my kid wants. He hasn't start talking so communication between us is definitely not there. I have to figure out what he wants and most of the time it's not what he wants. I just want to pause the time and chill. Both my husband and my helper is trying to help but i consistently find what they are doing is wrong. I try delegating the tasks but i don't feel confident they're able to do the tasks given. My husband sometimes don't know what to do and i had to rush in to help, my helper likes to force my kid when he doesn't like to do things and i'm always telling her that my son hates to be forced so you must relax. I need to be patient and chill or else i'll show that i'm struggling. Why can't things just be ok right now? Why must it be this hard?

hang in there dear, at least you have your husband and helper to look after your kid when you are tied up. whereas I'm sorry to say but I am alone when it comes to taking care of my lo. but my baby tends to listen to my husband and my father more. Just have more positive attitude when caring for your kid. Jiayou, Mummy!

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Im currently waiting for my divorce to be finalised. I found out my soon to be ex husband cheated on me multiple times with prostitutes in June, and it was not easy ever since. Up till today, i still cant grasp the idea that he cheated and found a taiwan singer as a gf so soon. She is even living in his parents house now!!!! and the idea of the interaction she has with my daughter is very uncomfortable for me. and up till today he still doesnt feel it was his fault, he still talks rudely to me and says not nice things to me... I dont know why but i get very affected by this. anyone went thru similar experience ? How do u cope w the idea that ur ex partner has a new gf? and spending time w ur LO?

I do understand. It is better to let go person who cheated you. You may feel very sad after separation. But If you live with him anymore. You have to suffer again and again. Spend more time with Lo and your close friends and family. It will help you to ease your sadness.

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Delivery experience at Mount Alvernia

Hi Mummies who delivered in Mount Alvernia recently - how was your delivery experience with the midwives and how were you induced (if this was the instruction from your gynae). I'm looking for pro-natural delivery and hoping mid wives will be able to help in this process since gynae only comes nearer the end, and hopefully manage pushing. Breathing/coping techniques- do I have to rely on myself? Thanks!

I gave birth at Mount Alvernia. The nurses there were very nice and experienced. My overall experience was good

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Postpartum Confinement

Anyone encounter this kind of situation whereby your in-law siblings came over for more than 4 hours when you are in your postpartum confinement. And when you told your husband don't let anyone visit for more than 4 hours and he's not happy with it.

mine did, i just let them no choice.. they also want to share the joy. as long as just once

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Milk powder for newborn

How many tins of milk powder do you replenish for you LO? Like 1 shot order 6 tins. I'm ordering nan 0 to 6 months. Using too fast, about 1 tin 1 month. Would like to know you mummy finish then buy or replenish few tins few tins

2 at one time for me cos of space constraints (living with my parents)

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Hello mummies! When should I purchase the hockhua confinement soup online?

I’m an FTM, due on 25 Feb 2022. But the delivery takes 5 days and the ingredients have a shelf life of 30 days. I’m wondering if I should just buy 2 weeks before due date and put half in the fridge? Cause in fridge it can last to a year. TIA!

yeah that sounds right, to keep in fridge. you never know if you might deliver earlier too

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Hi. Just to know how you feel if you catch your husband masturbate with his phone on his hand? 🤮

Super Mom

Oh man that’ll be a sucky feeling. Definitely need to talk to him about it.

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