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Has anyone tried fat freezing? Does it work?

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i just found out i am pregnant, i should be feeling happy but im not. currently i have a 16month old boy, intended to have a second one end of next year. reason being i haven have enough time for myself n my boy for the past 16 months dur to my heavy work commitment. i have just quit my job hoping to have more time for my boy, also some time for myself. Also i was hoping tat after i resign i can persuade my hub to ask my mil to return to her own house to stay as i can look after my own kid. Was having alot of issues staying with my mil and because she is looking after my kid i have to tolerate. now with my pregnancy all my plans will be jeopardized. if my mil learnt i am preggy all the more she will not move back... now even if i have the time to spent with my boy i can no longer baby carry him... all these thoughts made me feel upset. am i abnormal to feel my lo came at the wrong time? i seriously dont wish to b preggy now. how can i adjust my feelings...

If u knew u were not ready for number 2, why did you not take precaution. Now that it's happened pls don't whine. It's your doing. I know this is harsh but it's the truth.

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Hi mummies, any of you use this facial wash? How is it? I have blackheads and whiteheads thinking to change to this cleanser.

Even home use exfoliants may not be that effective, I would go for a good facial.

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Do you think your time with lo is never enough ?

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erhmmm I am.a sahm. I think my me time is never enough instead. lol

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Just to rant .. Sometimes I feel that maybe I shouldn't browse through Facebook Too much. I often think that other people's lives are so much better than mine ; I know I shouldn't feel this way but i should be grateful for all that I have but I jus can't help but feel that Way:( For example , I saw on Facebook that my fren's hubby bought her flowers on Mother's Day to thank her for taking care of the children. My heart was discouraged when I didn't receive such appreciation from my hubby . Or their kids surprised their Mom with some Mother's Day gift .. sigh .. I know it is not healthy to compare but I jus can't help feeling this way whenever I browse through Facebook. Anybody feel the same way as I do ? Or am I the odd one out?

I think it's normal to a certain extent. But it also depends on what is ur love language. Sure, flowers are nice. Nice meal is good. Gifts are good. But not everyone wants the same thing. If there is something u want, u should make it known. Easier for everyone. But if it's like flower or cards, I think can just leave it - if it happens, it happens. Just enjoy the day will do

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Hey parents, do share with me your thoughts - What's the difference between mental health and mental illness?

Thanks Jaxy for sharing

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How do you talk to your baby? Will you go by the old style " naughty boy hor.." or " good boy ". No matter what LO do, u will prise or will just continue like the old folks style. And say something like " you can do this meh? I think you can't. "

whatever he does that you feel is right, praise him.

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Just to rant. I choose sale of balance flat and end up only with all the lol 2,3,4. I nv live in a hob low floor before. I used to living in the highest level. I heard a lot of cockroaches and rats and is smelly and less windy. Can anyone living in low level tell me more about the living conditions. Like what should I prevent?

Low floor hdb not as windy as the higher floors. I find that it's noiser too.

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Hi mummies. My mum offer to help me take care of my lo once I go back to work. But the issue is that I find that she like not really comfortable with handling my bm. Cause when I asked her to prepare the milk such as taking out from the fridge and pour into bottle and heat up, she would rather offer to carry my lo while I go and do it. I mean I can do this. But when I go back to work she will have to handle it. I'm just wanted to let her have a try. Yeah it's a simple task but I have to let go and let her do as soon I will be back to workforce. And also after lo finish the milk. She also won't wash the bottle. My heart thinking is it she find my bm very gross. Am I being too sensitive or any one experience the same way like I do. ? I want to ask her what is it that she is not comfortable with but I do not know how to approach her. I Don want to give her the impression like I trying to find problem with her whereas she is being nice by offering to look after my lo.

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Since she's your mum, just open up and ask her directly - in a nice, calm way of course!

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What types of insurance will you buy for your baby ? how much ? and how long is the commitment ?

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