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My mum likes to tell lies, say half truth or hide the truth from us. It's nt something serious but i just don like the idea of lying, and do not wish my children to be brought up in such an environment. However, my mum is the caregiver, i have the intention of pulling them out and putting them in child care but feels insecure and worried. I heard and seen too much negative incidents happening in child cares. Furthermore my mum is the kind that favors male over female. My son gets everything and anything he wants while my daughter nt only being neglected but also gt compared with son saying she is nt as gd as my son in every ways. Eg"ur bro is more lovable than u, he is cleverer than u, everyone likes him over u(daughter)" No1 20mth No2 4mth No3 on the way What will ur do?

If you already have issues with your mom's style of upbringing and favouritism among your kids, it's better to make alternative arrangements for their care giving if you are a FTWM. Not all childcare have issues (and you probably choose to remember the bad incidents over the good ones ). Just need to do your homework when you have shortlisted a few childcare and go take a look at the environment or speak with parents with kids in those childcare to get their feedback. Weigh in the costs and distance of the childcare from your place, etc. I would choose to maintain a good relationship with my mom so that she can still be my backup if I need her help at times (eg. when kids are sick) rather than to keep having friction with her on upbringing styles.

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I myself got prob wif my husb. Divource take place next yr. You know how devasted i m. Wat i m going through. Lets get straight to e point. My mom told me yesterday lets go temple. I said ok. She say get ready by 7am. I said 8am ok. Conf with my bro. This morning me n my dau already took shower. Get ready. I keep calling my mom. She is nt answering. Then at 9 plus my mom came to my house. Saying she nt going temple. Asking me to go evening time. I said its fine. I go evening. At 10am, my sis in law call me asking me were i m. I said i at home. Coming down now to follow mom go marketing. Here my sil start telling me that y i dont want to follow temple. I told her la that i keep calling. No one pick up. Moreover; my lo is sleepy. I told her i go evening time. Then she said that i cannot always let my lo go alone temple. Y i cant follow. I told her i go evening better. Then she shouted at me over the phone you better dont talk to me in that tone. You fucking dont shout. Since wen i shout. I jus hang up. When i go down. I can hear my sil shouting at my door asking to open. She is creating a nauisance at my hm were nobody is at hm. When she saw me downstair, she puch me, she open her big f eye to create a prob. There are ppl ard e road side looking at our problem. Here she shouting. And my bro hv to pull her hand to take her away. What hurt me the most, she said i m a useless mother, every time come to 8 9pm, thats y my husb left me. I wk so hard for my lo. How can a person say i m useless. F s*** this women, my husb left me is bcozz he has affair with his own colleague. He doesnt wan me n my lo. Even uncle on a bike stop n her off. she nt happy My sil has hurt my feeling very terribley. She shouted at me. Push me were i m carrying my lo . Hey mummy i m terrible devasted. Seriously, i m very very feeling down

Your SIL cannot punch and push you! Please make a police report.

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Is it true that c sect is more difficult to slim down?

Nope.. Not true..

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Hi mummies, how do ur educate or control ur kids when staying with own parents or in laws? Im staying with own parents and they overwrite every single thing i say. I alrd quarrel and stay firm in my stand, ended up also lost. I really very fed up with my parents. Even my child knows that whatever i said is as good as "air"

It happens. Try to take your kid outside more often for some 1-1 time. It will help foster the parent n child bond.

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Any activities or babyfair this week?

I am not sure about this week, but I have recently signed up for this play date event at Waterway Point! Now got early bird discount so quite worth it! https://supermom.com.sg/mega-playdate-17

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Hello friends, Has anyone organised kids birthday party at the beach- bbq party? End of october..small group of 20-25 ppl... Whats your opinion? Thanks in advance.

Did it for my girl's first birthday 10yrs ago, was at a chalet. Do u have helpers to help u BBQ cos BBQ food takes longer n u won't want the guests to wait too long for food , can BBQ some food first if they dun mind cold food. I've prepare some extra home cooked food like beehoon curry chicken etc so they can have those while waiting for BBQ food. N pray that weather is good!if u r having it at night do consider ur kid's slp time , my girl was overwhelmed after the party n tired so she was v cranky when we made her zzz

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How would you all feel if your husband tells you that his female cousin is equally as important as you are to him? I find that she has been texting him very often. On the surface it seems like she is asking opinion. But I think it is too much. They have so many cousin why she keep coming to my husband? So we quarrel today and I ask my husband if she is equally important than me as your wife. He actually say YES!!! I feel like divorcing this heartless man who never treasure me at all after so many years of marriage.

Hi mummy, I think you should take some time to cool down and think this through rationally. Maybe there are different view points so please dont do anything rash when upset! Maybe you could take some time to speak to him calmly and explain that it makes you uncomfortable and see what he has to say.

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I really need to rant!!! I am really fed up with my parents. Everything gives in to my 21mo toddler, now whenever we(husband and i) said "no" or "cannot" or anything that doesnt please him he will scream and cry for "ah ma" even when he is in the public. Whenever he cries, my mum("ah ma") or my dad will come and carry him away. We already told them firmly to stay away whenever we are teaching the child yet they picked up fight with us(with me actually in the presence of hubby) in front of the kid. As though my son has someone to support him. Just now son cried from his nightmare, was pacifying him then dad came in and took him away. TELLING MY SON NO WORRIES DON LISTEN, COVER YOUR EARS NO WORRIES GRANDPA IS HERE!!! I am seriously raging about this matter. Everything also gives in to him, at his age he knows who he can look for and who can shelter him. So how am i gonna teach him and make him listen to me!!!

Move out and stay?

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Having sex during two weeks wait after ovulation will reduce chances of conceiving?

Nope doesn’t happen.

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Any mummies notice LOs getting fussy or crying for you or daddy more often during this 7th month?

Yes for me! Omg and the nightmares my LO is having since day 1 of 7th month! She screams out of nowhere halfway sleeping. And is very sticky to me. Day time ie fussy as well. Cranky. I thought she might be teething or something but no....

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