Birthclub: Januari 2026

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Penat dengan notifikasi berunsur negatif

Setiap waktu menerima notifikasi judul negatif, betul tambah panik para ibubapa. Tolonglah memperbaiki perkara ini, supaya ibubapa tidak huru-hara sehingga mengancam kesihatan. Penat...

Eh betul tu, aku rasa sama jugak! Notifications pasal "bahaya" ni memang bikin stress jea, terutama kalau tengah handle banyak benda dengan kids. Memang boleh cukai mental health kita, plus anak-anak pun tengok kita panik then mereka jadi anxious gak. Maybe try mute or adjust notification settings untuk app ni dulu, at least reduce the constant alarm-alarm? Kita kena protect our peace jugak sebagai mums, kalau kitapeace, keluarga pun akan lebih tenang.

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Parut bcg takde? Jangan risau😊

Takda apa pun tu cuma nak kena tanda , Kalau takda misi akan cuck skali lagi , Kalau takda naik jgk,tggu anak tingkatan 1 pulk.. Naik nanah tu biar je ,nnt dia kering

Aiyo don't worry lah, not all babies get the BCG scar, some kids just don't develop one even though the vaccine works fine, and it's totally normal! A few of my mum friends' babies also didn't have the mark but their immunity is still there, so don't stress about it. If you're concerned whether the vaccine took, best to check with the doctor at your next visit and they can do a test if needed.

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21 weeks naik berat mendadak T.T

Sampai 19 weeks cuma naik 2kg je pastu dalam 2 minggu ni bertambah lagi 2 kg ya allah stress pulak tiba tiba je wgahsgsh style makan sebelum 19 weeks lagi teruk tiap hari minum manis makan berlemak. Nak rant je ni sebab masih rahsia kan dari orang huhu. Harap next checkup dapat turun sikit 😔 haih dahla dr kata maximum saya boleh naik 10kg je aduh sorry la menghampakan dokter

Aiyoh sayang don't stress yourself lagi, sudden weight gain at this stage is actually quite normal because your baby is growing faster now and your body is retaining more water and blood volume! A few of us went through the same thing around mid-pregnancy and it evened out later, plus honestly 4kg in 21 weeks is still within normal range lah, not like you're going crazy. Your doc probably just want to make sure you're eating balanced macam not purely junk, bukan nak stress you out one, and if you cut down on the sugary drinks from now on your next weigh-in might look better already. Take it easy on yourself, pregnancy cravings are real, and kasi yourself some grace la, most of us don't stick to textbook eating the whole time anyway!

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Bayi kerap muntah umur bayi 4m 27d , minum susu formula dupro soya ,

Kenapa bayi kerap muntah #firsttimemom #mohonbantujawab

Eh, soya formula memang boleh sebab gassy or tak agree dengan baby's tummy lah, ada babies yang kena reflux or intolerant jugak, so might be worth checking with your pediatrician if the spitting up is a lot or baby seems uncomfortable after feeds. Try burping baby well during and after feeding, and keep baby upright for 20-30 mins after minum, sometimes helps! Hang in there, first time mum life is tough but you're doing great, and doctor can advise if need to switch formula or if ada reflux concerns.

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Baby baru 5 bulan tp dah pregnant lagi

Salam. Nak meluah. Baby baru 5 bulan, upt dah double line padahal sy ambik contraceptive and consume morning-after pill tu Taktau la nak rasa apa sbb utk yg baby 5 bulan ni, jarak 3 tahun dgn si kakak. Tetiba nak dpt no 3 pulak. Sy ckp kt suami dulu no 3 nak jarak lama sikit, and at least time financially stable. Tetiba Allah bg rezeki ni. Taktau lah ek. Sedih sgt sbb tgh tunggu panggilan haji, tp rezeki lain yg dtg dulu.

Alamak mama, I can really feel how overwhelmed you must be right now, three little ones in quick succession is a lot to process, especially when you'd planned things differently. It's completely okay to feel sad and conflicted about this; these feelings are real and valid, and many mums go through similar shocks even when taking precautions. Please do see your doctor soon to confirm the pregnancy and check your health, especially since you're still breastfeeding the 5-month-old, so they can guide you properly on what's safe for you and baby. In the meantime, give yourself grace, Allah's timing isn't always our timing, and while the financial and emotional weight feels heavy now, many mums in your shoes have found their way through with family support and proper planning. You're not alone in this, and it's okay to seek help from your suami, family, or even a counsellor if the feelings become too much. Sending you lots of strength, mama.

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Rasa macam ada wall inside when doing intercourse

Hi, saya FTM and gave birth via emergency C-section (Jan 2026). Right now I'm on depo shot. Before and after Depo, saya dan suami was having intercourse, tapi separuh jalan je sebab saya rasa sakit inside vagina. I was well-lubricated at that time, tapi masih rasa sakit. It feels like there's a barricade or wall inside my vagina. Guys yang ada experience yang sama, macam mana korang settle benda ni?

Oh mama, I'm so sorry you're experiencing this, it's quite common after C-section, but definitely worth checking with your gynae about because sometimes there can be scar tissue or other things going on that need proper assessment. Since you're only a few months postpartum, your body is still healing, and the depo can also affect lubrication and tissue elasticity in ways that might be contributing. I'd really encourage you to have a chat with your doctor before trying anything else, as they can do a proper examination and give you the right guidance for your specific situation, no need to manage this alone, dear.

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Ank jatuh katil

Hi mommies..ank sy umur 6 bulan jatuh katil 2 kli dh..kli prtama tu ok..jatuh kli kedua ni ade benjol kt dahi dan lebam sikit kt lengan n bdan belakang dia..sy dh monitor stakat ni dia aktif lg x muntah x demam,, cuma risau lebam dan benjol even dh surut sikit..

Sayang, please take her to the clinic or hospital now to check that bump and bruises, even if she seems okay, better safe than sorry with a 6-month-old's head. You're doing the right thing by monitoring, but a doctor needs to see her properly. I know how scary these falls are, and the fact she's still active and not vomiting is a good sign, but those bumps on the head do need checking out by a professional, especially since it happened twice. Don't wait and worry alone, go get her checked so you can have peace of mind, okay?

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Ibu GDM + insulin

Berapa gula yang normal untuk ibu GDM

Eh, this is really something you need to ask your doctor or the nurse at your clinic, okay? Blood sugar levels for GDM are very specific to each mum, yours might be different from someone else's, so don't compare. Your doctor will tell you exactly what your target numbers should be and how to check them, especially since you're on insulin already. Go see them soon if you haven't discussed your targets clearly yet, yeah? Take care of yourself and baby!

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Anak 7 bulan tumbuh gigi

Hai mumy2 sekalian.. Macam mana cara tenangkan sakit tumbuh gigi anak umur 7 bulan..

Ay, I feel you lah, my girl was a nightmare at that age! What really helped us was cold teething rings in the fridge (not freezer, sebab too hard) and lots of chewing on clean, damp cloths, plus we did gentle gum massage with clean fingers. Paracetamol also helped on the really cranky nights, but honestly the constant drooling and wanting to chew everything is just part of the journey, it'll pass, mama!

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Fibroid during pregnancy

Ada tak mommies yang ada dua fibroid masa pregnancy, any tips ? Sedih Sebab baru 18 weeks

saya ada pengalaman tu, no worries just monitor follow apa dr inform

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