Birthclub: Januari 2026

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Belum melahirkan 15/8 due

Ada yg due 15hb 8 tp msih seperti saya yg belom melahirkan..ad x cara untuk cepat bukaan . pregnancy sblom ni czer..sbb bby bsaq..due 17/1 tpi 11/1 dah lahir..Thun ni doc prefer branak normal..hmm

Hai mama, aku faham sangat lah perasaan tu menunggu due date, especially kalau sebelom ni czer sebab baby besar. Jujur, memang sulit nak "paksa" bukaan cepat, yang terbaik adalah biarkan badan kita sendiri yang decide, tapi boleh lah cuba benda-benda natural macam jalan banyak-banyak, minum air banyak, dan relaks supaya hormone labour keluar natural

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Beza jadi ibu dan blm jadi ibu untuk saya

Bagi saya , saya sangat gembira ada anak , tak dapat nk cakap gembira tu macam mana , bagi saya anak saya segala galanyaa, sekarang saya paham kenapa orang cakap jadi mak tak mudah , tapi semenjak jadi mak saya x pernah segembira walaupun ada penat , Wallahi aku bahagia sangat Ya Allahh , comel kan anak saya, Tapi ada orang hina anak saya , tu yang buat hati saya hancur sangat" 🥲 apa" pun saya bahagia dengan si kecil saya , 🤍

Beza jadi ibu dan blm jadi ibu untuk saya

Hai mama, subhanallah, terbaca habis semangat cinta kamu untuk si kecil tu, memang lain rasa jadi ibu kan, joy yang tak dapat digambarkan dengan perkataan, tapi payah juga lah lepas tu hehe. Apa yang penting tu kamu happy dengan dia, bukan orang lain punya kepuasan, dan mana ada anak tak comel, tu semua anak orang adalah special untuk mummy dia, so ignore je siapa yang nak cakap benda pelik tu, hati kamu je yang tahu bagaimana precious dia untuk kamu. Alhamdulillah kamu dapat enjoy journey motherhood ni dengan penuh syukur, tu dah cukup untuk si kecil kamu grow up dengan ibu yang bahagia dan sayangkan dia .

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Anak 6bulan taknak makan dan main makanan

Sy dh penat dh 😭 tiap hri sediakan makanan untuk bby 6bulan. Tapi dia tetap taknak makan atau sentuh dah 3minggu macam ni. Apa je sy tak cuba? Hampir semua tips sy dh cuba. Grounding pun dh, buat sensory play pun sudah . 🫩🥹

Hai mama, aku paham betul lah penatnya tiga minggu memang lama gila nak tunggu baby nak makan, especially lepas kau dah try semua benda. Aku ada few mum friends yang baby mereka macam ni juga, dan mostly doktor kata boleh jadi dia takut texture, atau tummy dia tengah uncomfortable, better check dengan doktor ye, sebab sometimes ada hidden reflux atau constipation yang buat dia taknak explore food. Dalam meantime, jangan stress sangat, sometimes baby ni just need time je, tapi kita kena pastikan dia still getting nutrition dari milk, so monitor weight dia dengan doktor. You're doing amazing lah, jangan give up!

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Perancang no period

Hai mommy2 nak tnya..ada tak yg lps bsalin ambil cucuk perancang kmudian yg kdua xambil cucuk dah ambil ubt..tp tak mkn pun ubat tu..dan period tak dtg2 slma 2 bulan ada takk sma mcm saya..

Hai mama, memang ada beberapa dari kami yang experienced gini jugak, terutama lepas stop cucuk perancang dan tak consistent makan ubat, period boleh jadi delayed atau irregular for a few months sampai hormones settle balik. Kaler dua bulan memang boleh happen, tapi better check dengan doktor ye sebab nak confirm hormones mu dah balance ke belum, atau ada something else going on. Jangan worry sangat, majority of us dah balik normal after a few months, tapi nak safe better get it checked out.

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Peroid lewat 3 hari upt -ve.. Please share pengalaman korang.. 🥲

Hii mommies tolongg, risau sngt2 nie. Period sy dh 3 hari delay. Test UPT -ve. Sy jenis regular period. Baby baru 6 bulan, czer plak tue. Sy harap sngt tak pregnant. Belum hilang lagi penat berjaga mlm, fully breastfeeding 😭 Sy tk ambik perancang, suami tk kasi.. knp ek tk wujudkan perancang utk suami. kita perempuan nie dah bnyk nau menangung.. Downnyaaaa rasa, strees sngtt 😭

Aww sayang, I totally get the stress, a few of us went through similar delays while breastfeeding and it's nerve-wracking lah, especially when you're already exhausted from night feeds. Hormones boleh jadi gila-gila when you're fully breastfeeding, so delays do happen even without pregnancy, tapi sebab UPT -ve and you're very regular, good idea lah test again in another 2-3 days or go see your gynae just to confirm and ease your mind. And ya lor, about the contraception, you definitely deserve to have that conversation with your suami because this is YOUR body and YOUR recovery, maybe frame it as "I need to space out pregnancies to be healthier for the kids kita" instead of just "I don't want another baby" lagi, sometimes they listen better that way

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Nak tnya Baby 11minggu dalam kandungan da bole Rasa

Saya da 11 minggu , ada tak Ibu-ibu da Rasa Baby Gerak2

Tak boleh rasa lagi. Untuk 1st pregnancy. gerakan baby boleh dirasai seawal 18- 24 minggu. 2nd pregnancy Dan seterusnya seawal 14-16 minggu

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Penat dengan notifikasi berunsur negatif

Setiap waktu menerima notifikasi judul negatif, betul tambah panik para ibubapa. Tolonglah memperbaiki perkara ini, supaya ibubapa tidak huru-hara sehingga mengancam kesihatan. Penat...

Eh betul tu, aku rasa sama jugak! Notifications pasal "bahaya" ni memang bikin stress jea, terutama kalau tengah handle banyak benda dengan kids. Memang boleh cukai mental health kita, plus anak-anak pun tengok kita panik then mereka jadi anxious gak. Maybe try mute or adjust notification settings untuk app ni dulu, at least reduce the constant alarm-alarm? Kita kena protect our peace jugak sebagai mums, kalau kitapeace, keluarga pun akan lebih tenang.

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buasir lepas bersalin

siapa kat sini yg ada buasir terkeluar tapi tak sakit? saya kena buasir selepas bersalin.. korang buat mcm mana

Alamak, I feel for you, postpartum hemorrhoids are really common after labour, especially if you pushed hard or had constipation during pregnancy! A few of us mums went through this, and honestly, the first thing is to see your doctor or gynae because sometimes what feels like just a pile can need proper assessment, especially if there's bleeding or it's causing discomfort. In the meantime, most of us swear by keeping things soft with lots of water and fibre, warm baths, and Anusol cream from the pharmacy, honestly changed the game for many of my mum friends who just wanted relief while recovering.

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Parut bcg takde? Jangan risau😊

Takda apa pun tu cuma nak kena tanda , Kalau takda misi akan cuck skali lagi , Kalau takda naik jgk,tggu anak tingkatan 1 pulk.. Naik nanah tu biar je ,nnt dia kering

Aiyo don't worry lah, not all babies get the BCG scar, some kids just don't develop one even though the vaccine works fine, and it's totally normal! A few of my mum friends' babies also didn't have the mark but their immunity is still there, so don't stress about it. If you're concerned whether the vaccine took, best to check with the doctor at your next visit and they can do a test if needed.

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21 weeks naik berat mendadak T.T

Sampai 19 weeks cuma naik 2kg je pastu dalam 2 minggu ni bertambah lagi 2 kg ya allah stress pulak tiba tiba je wgahsgsh style makan sebelum 19 weeks lagi teruk tiap hari minum manis makan berlemak. Nak rant je ni sebab masih rahsia kan dari orang huhu. Harap next checkup dapat turun sikit 😔 haih dahla dr kata maximum saya boleh naik 10kg je aduh sorry la menghampakan dokter

Aiyoh sayang don't stress yourself lagi, sudden weight gain at this stage is actually quite normal because your baby is growing faster now and your body is retaining more water and blood volume! A few of us went through the same thing around mid-pregnancy and it evened out later, plus honestly 4kg in 21 weeks is still within normal range lah, not like you're going crazy. Your doc probably just want to make sure you're eating balanced macam not purely junk, bukan nak stress you out one, and if you cut down on the sugary drinks from now on your next weigh-in might look better already. Take it easy on yourself, pregnancy cravings are real, and kasi yourself some grace la, most of us don't stick to textbook eating the whole time anyway!

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