Dont be scared sir. If its for your wife and your child. Please just trust the doctor. I was on that same situation.. I was really scared of any operation until the day the got to deliver. I really tried my best to have a normal delivery but after 5hrs since my water broke and my baby hasnt moved out yet, my midwife advised to undergo cs operation bcos its getting dangerous.. thats when we found it he's cordcoil. 3 rounds on his neck. my baby was admitted for weeks bcos of he hardly breathe caused of too much trying for normal labor. so just trust the doctors, he knows what to do to make it easier for your wife and your baby..