I have my own money. And my husband has his own. He has responsibility and has the money for our home family needs to fullfill. I mean for our good living together being a well being wealthy healthy happy family and he takes care of a save amount of money for all of us in case I don't work. Then i take care of the children and household without a job elsewhere from home. I can work for extra money but it's not neccesary. We are good. We spend all of our money on our family our needs and have an amount of our own pocketmoney for ourselves to spoil ourselves and our family with extra gifts.