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To me, it's surprising how generally okay I am with sharing a life, a space and my heart with someone. I've always been on my own, living by my rules, working, travelling and pretty much doing a lot of things independently. I always thought marriage, living with someone would be difficult but it's been pretty easy to open up my life and heart. We have arguments here and there but it feels weird thinking about how life was before he came along. Guess that's how you know he's the one :)
So surprising that there's no turning back. You cannot replace your spouse since it's a lifetime commitment. Never thought I would miss being single and working because my husband has never been a great provider. I love our son so much thinking if only I could choose the father of my child. So surprised that my husband changed so much that I wanted to replace him. Never really thought I would feel this way. I feel sorry for our child.
First his attitude. From the start he used to be drunk all night even before our big day. Hes not that responsible. He used to let her mom take care our child even though her mom is also taking my child away from me. And its my first time also to know that there are mothers out there or MIL that are really numb the feeling of a mother when her child is taking away from her emotionally.
Hi, What surprised me is the fact that being a very individual person, how I have adjusted to the life where the other one has a significant presence in almost everything I do. How to liking spending time with my own self, now I miss him being around. And how those lonely moments I enjoyed feel irksome without his presence. This change in me has really surprised me a lot.
His attitude towards my parents changed from bad to worse, totally no respect for them and even severed ties with my mum just because she asked him to simmer down when he & I quarrelled. I wish I never marry this lousy guy but too bad no turning back for me!
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That you can be around the same person for days on end and still find them interesting and still be as madly in love with them a few years later as much as you felt in the first month of dating ;)
Really takes a lot of effort to show affection to stay involved in a loving marriage, and not just stay in a comfort zone and take each other for granted.
That one day you realise that it has been 15 years since you are living together and feel that those years went by so soon and you long for many more of them.
I felt surprise when my husband who doesn't help me to look after my baby since he was born and he still got the cheek to ask me for another baby 😱😱