My personal opinion would be to adjust the priorities. For instance, some household chores could be done once a week or once every fortnight instead of daily. This will allow her more time to attend to the children.
Assess what are your priorities.
From what I see, I think time is limited so you'd rather her focus on the more important stuff than to try to do everything.
I would only increase the pay if she performs the tasks adequately. So perhaps you can consider giving a bonus at the end of the year instead?
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