For me, as long as it’s my side I’m okay to go alone (if he’s working). He mainly joins me to take care of baby while I enjoy myself. (Since I’m the baby when I’m back to my own maiden house and I can finally rest and enjoy 😂.) Maybe you can ask him if there’s any reason why he don’t wanna join the celebration if its your sibling’s?
Definitely. I explained to my hubs the rationale of y my extended family likes to gather n celebrate, any occasion or non occasion. If we dun maintain ties, it’s only our parents’ generation that remains close. Sooner or later, we won’t know each other anymore. So we make it a point to go for every gathering, whether we’ll be late or not.
Hmm parents bdae yes but for the sibling bdae and normal family dinner I don’t expect… also I don’t really mind if he doesn’t
yes, i dont really stay in contact with friends outside of family so to me, family gatherings r most impt
My husband joins me at every gathering, be it family gathering or birthdays etc.