I'm currently 23wks pregnant. Was invited to cousin's bb full month celebration.Wanted to go very much but heard that according to Chinese custom...best not to go as may not be good for me/bb. Is there such a thing or custom or "clashes" stuff? Will it really be bad for my bb?Felt it's superstitious but just want good for my bb at the end. Any comments?

There will be thousands and one superstitions that we probably already broke before the child is born. It depends how much u choose to believe.

I was asking my parents about this too. Because tomorrow I will be attending... Another side of the family were fine with it.

Yea it really depends on how superstitious you are, for me I'll still go..

I’ll go too. This is just some old folks superstition.

I went my cousin's shower when I was pregnant

Just go. The superstition isn't valid.

discuss with ur cousin ?

for me I'll go