Hey mama,
First, I realise that you might be angry at this stage but please try not to take it out on anyone - especially not yourself and your baby. Things happen during pregnancy and having a child is not without challenges.
Your hormone levels are elevated and so are your senses which may explain why your feel this way towards the smells you’re experiencing.
I’m happy that you feel happy after moving. I can also probably understand why your husband misses his privacy too if he moves into your mum’s place with you.
How about talking to him about how you’re feeling and how you’d really like him to be by your side? You both conceived this baby together and you should also care for it and raise it together yes?
How about a comprimise? You may be staying apart but you could have dates until your aversion to the smell blows over.
Perhaps all he wants to do is be heard and recognised and you do too.
Give each other that space and try to talk things out.
When we face difficulties with our spouses, our relationship gets stronger too :)
Take care - and please don’t feel like you’re alone okay? Just reach out here - lots of mamas here for support and a listing ear.
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