Hi there.. lately i realise my son's startle reflex is affecting his sleep. I wanted to slowly wean him off swaddling but without the swaddle, he would wake up much earlier than usual. He is 3 months old and can sleep 6 to 7 hours with swaddle on. But without, he will start to fuss after ard 3 hours. My husband then realise that if we put a slightly heavier pillow on his legs (hip area was avoided, just his legs), it is similar to the swaddling effect but his hands are freed. But i am kind of worried with such approach - i.e. restricting his leg movements albeit he (and we) can sleep longer. Anyone can enlighten me on this? Or is there other ways i can slowly wean off swaddling (cos i suspect he will learn slipping over quite soon)? Thanks!