Suami jarang sentuh

Salam..normal ke lps ada anak suami pon dh jarang nak bersama 🤷🏻🤷🏻🤷🏻 selalunya asyik sy je nk kena terhegeh² dkt dia..dulu masa awal2 kahwin hari² nak tp lps je dpt anak trus jd cmni dri sy pregnant lg...sy pun ada perasaan jgk ada nafsu , skrg dh hampir 3 minggu dia tk bersama dgn sy 🥺😭 klau bab nafkah bg duit semua dia ok je...selalu sgt busy dgn kerja..sabtu ahad krja..isnin - jumaat kalau ada motor nk repair yg tu dia sanggup plk berjam2 hadap , lps tu kalau tkda apa² kerja dok mengadap fon sampai lah tidur esok bgun pagi ulang lah benda yg sama..😌😌😌😭 sy rasa mcm terseksa jiwa dan raga..ada sesape boleh nasihat?😌🥺🥺

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Aduh, memang sakit hati rasa macam tu Normal saja rasanya kecewa, tapi 3 minggu tu dah lama jugak, mungkin perlu ada conversation serius dengan suami, bukan marah-marah tapi explain how you're feeling, maybe frame it sebagai couple time yang penting untuk relationship, bukan just about physical intimacy. A few of my mum friends went through the same, some found it helped to plan something small together (lepak tengok drama, minum kopi) first sebelum expect anything more, sometimes guys just perlu feel connected emotionally dulu lah. The fact dia still provides is good, but a marriage needs both financial and emotional support, so your feelings are valid sangat. If this terus berlanjut and affecting your mental health, might be worth talking to a counsellor or even your doctor, sebab stress macam ni boleh buat effect ke health and breastfeeding if you're still nursing

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