For second pregnancy, did you stilll engage a confinement lady? If yes/no, why? If no, how did you cope? Can't decide myself whether I want to engage a cl. TIA!

No, unless ur #1 is good n u gonna hire the same CL. If not big No! Confinement too precious to risk hiring someone who may annoy u n they are expensive. If u r determined yes def can cope. Get little help from hub, mom n mil? Or some close gf?