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Good day En. Calvin Tan, kenapa ya my son (6years) sometime still upset even bila kami, his parents already fulfill kehendak dia? is it normal? and how suppose am i to face this situation?
My 2 year old tends to hit when other child took his toy and he cried so badly, how do I help him to regulate his emotion in order to have a healthier method?
thanks Cik Calvin's advice
hi en. calvin, macam mana nak tahu kalau anak kita ada masalah emosi dan mental? selain itu, macam mana nak elakkan dari berlaku?
Hi Amanda Dari segi genetik, is normal that kebnykan manusia ade gene2 mental health tapi depends on alot of factor yg akan triggerkan sesuatu gene. So my advise is to do a genetik test kanak2 supaya anda bole tau ape personality dan juga keadaan mental health (i.e. ape gene2 mental health) sejak lahir. But I biasa akan mengalakkan ibu bapa supaya menguatkuasakan " principle education" maksud kalau anak berperangai baik, ok lah bagi pujian atau reward; tapi kalau perangai dia buruk, mesti ambik tindakan tegas! So as long as the boundaries are clear, tak yah lah marah2 atau jerit2 tiap2 hari
hi is it normal for 2year plus to throw tantrum when they want something....being stubborn to get what they want ..how to calm down them....
From a genetic point of view, children who portray behavior like stubbornness, throwing tantrum, OCD etc. are highly related to their mental health genes (e.g. autism, hyperactive, OCD etc.) as well. Hence I always encourage parents to invest in a children dna test for their kids so that you would know not just what's their talents, personality or nutrition conditions are like (in-born) but also what to take care of in terms of their mental health as well which would highly affect their cognitive development and behaviour among their peers.
Soalan saya mudah je.. Bagaimana ingin menjadi ibu yang tenang? Anak saya dalam fasa aktif meneroka. Kadang saya penat n jd nak marah. 😰
Hi Nur Zuraika okay kalau biasa budak2 terlalu aktif ke ataupun "hyperactive" or even mcm throwing tantrum terhadap ibu bapa, punca pertama mesti sebab budak tu tak ade "boundary" dgn parents dia. Jadi advise saya ni, garisan boundary antara ibu bapa dgn anak mestinya jelas, maksudnya kau nak bagi anak awak tau awak yg lahirkan dia dan awak yg alpha dlm family, jadi saling hormat-menghormati tu mestinya ada I biasa akan mengalakkan ibu bapa supaya menguatkuasakan " principle education" maksud kalau anak berperangai baik, ok lah bagi pujian atau reward; tapi kalau perangai dia buruk, mesti ambik tindakan tegas! Also dari segi genetik, biasa budak2 yg terlampau aktif atau terlalu sunyi, mestinya ade chance mempunyai genetik hyperactive or autism!
Genetic test seawal berapa tahun boleh buat ya Mr Calvin?
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