Aww, you're such a good friend lah! Honestly, try searching "Special Needs Parent Malaysia" or "Parents of Children with Special Needs Malaysia" on Facebook, ada quite a few closed groups where moms share experiences, tips, even just vent about the tough days, and your friend will feel less alone. A few of my mum friends found these groups game-changing, especially when they're juggling therapy appointments, unsupportive in-laws, and a working spouse, the emotional support from people who truly understand is priceless. Considering she's dealing with joint and brain issues, she might also find specific groups for those conditions, but the general special needs parent groups are really where the solidarity happens, you know? You're doing the right thing by helping her connect; that kind of friend is gold.