What are the 3 most important things in your relationship?

I really feel you on this question, it is something I think about a lot as a parent and spouse. For me, the three things that hold our relationship together are honest communication, making time for each other even when the kids are exhausting us, and genuinely appreciating the small things your partner does daily. When my husband and I started being more intentional about saying thank you for even the little stuff, things felt so much warmer between us lah. Would love to hear what others feel is most important too.