I totally feel you! For my case, it’s my colleagues. They keep asking me before I’m pregnant and I got so fed up that I say “stop asking me. Even if I am, I won’t tell you when I’m in my first trimester. So don’t make me lie. And I will tell you when I can”. From then on, they never ask a single time. I think some people are just being concerned or some kpo. I just think positive that they want to celebrate happy news!
My case is colleagues... Annoying to the max. First trimester I was on long mc. Keep asking me lots of questions. Will stare at tummy to find out. After knowing pregnant...keep asking due date.. Wanted to touch the tummy.. Worse some even ask.. "Huh this is also girl.. Ur elder is also girl right" I feel that colleagues are the most insensitive creatures.
I feel you. But mine is not family members. But an annoying colleague.... who always keep on asking! (Sometimes "pregnancy related" topic comes up once a week or almost everyday when at work. Shes such a busybody!) I had to lie because im not ready to tell colleagues yet. Hang in there! We can get through this. :)
Argh annoying colleagues. I had a colleague who found out and went to annouce it to my big boss!! (behind my back) I confronted her right away after I found out and we fell out Hahaha. I'm not even sorry for it.
Haha! Just share with you a funny story. A colleague who is new actually asked me directly, "are you pregnant?" And after that asked, "what's your name ah?" People are just weird, kaypoh and insensitive. Sometimes it comes out of their own insecurities so just smile it away. Lol!
Just ignore them!! My colleagues went to ask my male direct superior if I'm pregnant 🤨 They have nothing to do I guess🤔 Relatives like to ask too, when when when? Normally I will IGNORE
Sometimes people cannot tell how far along you are so take it positively that they care enough to ask.
I feel you! Don’t mind them! Just be positive 😊
totally agree it's sooooo annoying 🙄🙄🙄
A.L