Putting your spouse first or putting your kids first?

In the midst of taking care of your kids , the priority should still be your spouse . This is what we learnt during pre-marital counselling . As Kids grow up , they will leave the nest to find their own world , but my spouse and I are the two who promise to grow old together. The love between husband n Wife is the strong glue that will hold the family together .. in this way , we can model good marriage example to our kids too :) never ever let Children take the place of our spouse