Putting your spouse first or putting your kids first?

Yes, I agree with Jamie. I think both are equally important and it is dependent on the situation. For example, when it comes to safety issues, children will probably come first as they are dependent on their parents to protect and make sound and good decisions for them. In front of family members, spouse will come first to present a united front. Even if there is any disagreement, I personally feel that it could be sorted in private. In public, one should never put their spouses down. When in front of the children especially, it is important to respect each other. Parents will always feel that they are responsible for their children. That being said, at the end of the day, it will be your spouse holding your hand and keeping you company till the end of the journey. Just my two cents. :)