Are you particular when it comes to balancing your children's IQ and EQ?

I think EQ is as important as IQ or even more. My son is a school going boy and I have seen some parents who are so competitive and so sensitive about grades and even school activities. We should also see how a child is emotionally available to his or her surroundings, friends and teachers. But unfortunately some schools are so focused on studies and puts so much pressure on the young minds it's really sad.