In laws!

My new home is coming, now I am staying with my parents and I don't get to see my in laws frequently. But if I moving in my new home, I have the feeling they will come whenever they like or maybe will try staying one or two days. Haiz, I really hope not. I am a Stay at home mom my son is 1 year old and they likes to ask me repeatedly u are not working now right? Seriously why care so much am I working or not. And will always talk a big round and give eye contact to me like indirectly telling me something. The difference between my family and his family is my family always have the problem of talking to straight and May offend my husband in someway. But his family talk round and round and aim at me or my husband. Really hate marriage life. I am a straight forward person and they are not. It drive me crazy. I just hate a quarrel with my husband about my family and his family. So I am not giving in and I will not even care of anything. Hate enough of those shallow fuckers. I really hate them! I hope I can hv my son and a good job now, so when I want a divorce is more easy for me.