Need to rant: I just cant help feeling sad and angry for hearing this coming from my own mum: Bro: baby girl is coming soon, wonder hw cute she will be or just as cute as the gor gor(no1) Mum: don bother to dream, baby girl wont be adorable one, even so also wont be as cute as the gor gor. She cfm wont be attractive one. Don bother hoping so much. She will be like her mother, inherit all her mother's bad genes. Be just the same unattractive person like her mum. This is just annoying and a pain to hear this. Whether anot she dislikes me, she shouldnt have commented such things to my son or whoever. Mum has always saying bad things abt my baby girl, making comparisons between them. Kept telling my no1, hw gd he is and my mum will only dote on him and wont dote on his sis. #testingmypatience

why such comment? Preferred boy than Girl tradition? I would interfere and cast on stone in her brain that they r both impt and adorable. Tell her off la, "u can say anything abt me but spare off my children"!

Tell her to stop it, otherwise she cnnt dote on your son. Tell her your family will not inherit her heart because you will raise them to be thoughtful and caring for each other.

That's is the reason why I don't allow my husband's mother to look after my LO because her mouth is also like a garbage collection center, nothing good comes out of it.

your mum is so old school! tell her nowadays daughters are more precious than sons. don’t let her words affect you, take care sister!

Own mum? Sad. Tell her, the bad genes come from her! Where does she think you come from? She gave birth to you. Anyway, keep away from her.

Sad to hear this Both are her grandkids Tell her that Does she want mei2 to tell gor2 next tine she doesn’t like grandma???

This is so sad to hear! I hope you’re coping well. Please don’t let your mother’s words affect you. :(((

I'm so sorry dear. I feel so sad that your mom say such things. I guess it's just the old school of thought.

I can understand at times. but just let them say as long as you know it isn't gonna be true..

Seriously such things still exist in this world ? If i was you i really cant be bother to go back.