Hi sis! Okay so yang penting nak ingat, everyday intercourse during fertile window boleh jadi counterproductive actually. Sperm count needs time to regenerate, so most fertility specialists suggest every other day atau 2-3 times per week is actually lebih effective. Tapi I understand your struggle, some mums say bila they focus purely on the fertile window, suami pulak rasa pressure and cooperation jadi susah. My friend went through this and she found that having sex a few times outside the fertile window too, even just 1-2 times, helped suami feel less "used" and relationship jadi better, which then made him more willing during the actual crucial days.
Kunci dia, kalau suami minta tiap malam, take it as a good sign he wants to try, but explain gently that quality over quantity works better untuk conceiving. Maybe suggest alternate days targeting your ovulation window, and remind him sperm needs rest too. If he understands the "strategy" rather than just feeling controlled, some husbands jadi more cooperative, worth trying a calm conversation about the science of it rather than just the schedule, you know?
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