Advice pleaseeeeee 😕

Question

Nag post yung ka work/barkada nang LIP ko stolen shot nang LIP busy sa harap nang computer then ang caption nung ka work/barkada niya is “ang pinaka babaerong nurse sa ….(sa work nila not to mention na lang)”Any company nurse lip koThen un nga nakita ko nainis ako bat kailangan mag post nang work/barkada niya nang ganun? Nakakawalang respeto sa part ko, hdi ko alam iisipin ko, iniisip ko bat masasabi un nang ka work/barkada niya kung walang basehan? Ang sabi ksi nang LIP biruan lang nila un, hays dahil dun sa post na un wala na ko peace of mind Thursday ito nang gabi nung makita ko yung post then chinat ko agad LIP ko sya pa galit until now hindi pa rin kmi ok almost 3 days na, maski chat or vc wla kinakamusta niya lang anak nmin pero yung about sa problema nmin wala hindi na oopen #pleasehelp #advicepleace

Maria Reyes Garcia · Answer

Oof, na-relate ko talaga ang frustration mo, a few of us moms went through similar situations with partners doing careless stuff on social media, and honestly it stings even more when they don't take it seriously after. The thing is, your feelings are completely valid kasi it's not just about a "joke", it's about respect and how he's putting your image out there without thinking about how it affects you, especially in a professional setting. I'd suggest na maybe you approach it from a different angle next time you talk: instead of going into the fight again, try to help him understand why it hurt you (like, it's your reputation too, and you don't feel safe having your personal moments shared that way), rather than focusing on whether the post was funny or not, kasi once he gets why you're upset, usually mas nakaka-relate sila. Three days of cold shoulder is rough though, so maybe send him a calm message na gusto mo lang talaga i-resolve this together, not to argue, sometimes guys need that gentle nudge to actually listen instead of just defending themselves.

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