Please i need advice 😕

Question

Nag post yung ka work/barkada nang LIP ko stolen shot nang LIP busy sa harap nang computer then ang caption nung ka work/barkada niya is “ang pinaka babaerong nurse sa ….(sa work nila not to mention na lang)”Any company nurse lip koThen un nga nakita ko nainis ako bat kailangan mag post nang work/barkada niya nang ganun? Nakakawalang respeto sa part ko, hdi ko alam iisipin ko, iniisip ko bat masasabi un nang ka work/barkada niya kung walang basehan? Ang sabi ksi nang LIP biruan lang nila un, hays dahil dun sa post na un wala na ko peace of mind Thursday ito nang gabi nung makita ko yung post then chinat ko agad LIP ko sya pa galit until now hindi pa rin kmi ok almost 3 days na, maski chat or vc wla kinakamusta niya lang anak nmin pero yung about sa problema nmin wala hindi na oopen #pleasehelp #advicepleace

Maria Reyes Garcia · Answer

Ay, napaka-frustrating ng situation na yan, especially kung feeling mo walang respeto yung ginawa niya. Honestly, a few of us moms have been through similar stuff with our partners, sometimes ang guys really don't get kung bakit nakaka-offend ang ganun, parang "joke lang" sa kanila pero nakaka-hurt sa amin. I think kailangan niyo talaga magusap nang malinaw, hindi lang through chat, kailangan niya marinig mo na this isn't about being sensitive, it's about respecting you as a person at as his partner, lalo na may anak na kayo. Try asking him kung paano siya makakatulong na ma-fix ang situation (like asking his coworker to take down the post), not just saying sorry, actually showing he gets why it was wrong and that your peace of mind matters more than a "joke" na nakasakit. Good luck, mama, hopefully after 3 days mag-cool off na siya at ready makipag-usap properly.

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