Deleting messages consider as a cheating?

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Nag left the group si LIP sa GC nila mag kakawork pero bago sya mag left nag message muna sya na “wag ninyo ko sali GC pag sa messeger makikita nang asawa ko”Nag inom sila nang mga high school barkada niya alam ko naman pumayag ako.Then pag uwe niya chineck ko cp niya nakita ko katex niya yung kabarkada niya inuutusan niyang mag unsent nang convo. Nila about sa usapan  about sa babae (messeger ulit) my barkada syang nag unsent nang mga message’s madami nka unsent At ngayon ang sabi niya kaya sya late umuwe ksi na bangga daw yung motor nung barkada nila pumunta sila nang brgy. Humihinge ako nang picture hdi pa nag sesend 🙄Hays🥹😭Sinabi ko naman saka niya noon pa sabihen niya sakin lahat kahit magalit ako atleast maging totoo sya sakinPero bakit ganto? Nag overthinking ba ko? Gusto ko mag tiwala saka niya ulit pero paano kung ganto naman sya 😞#pleasehelp Any advice po please 😞😞😞

Amihan Santos · Answer

Ay sis, I feel your heart on this one, hindi ka overthinking, ang red flags here ay talagang nandoon, and it's okay to feel uneasy about it The asking him to unsend messages, leaving the group chat specifically so you won't see, the late alibi without proof, these things together paint a picture na something's being hidden, hindi lang one-time mistake. A few of us moms have been through similar situations with our partners, and ang common lesson is: trust without transparency isn't really trust, it's just hoping. If he truly wants to rebuild your faith in him, he needs to be willing to be honest about everything, no selective stories, no hidden chats, because that's what makes a relationship actually work long-term. Talk to him calmly but firmly that you need honesty more than anything else, and if he can't give you that, that's information too about where you both stand. Hang in there, sending you strength

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