My dd is 3 months and I am asked to shape her features like raising nose and pressin on lip area.....is it really required or even work? Pls share your thoughts and real life experiences

I agree with others. It's probably an old wives' tale. I know of friends whose mothers did that to them but it's not like they have the perfect noise. We should be more accepting of what our babies really are and let go of any physical appearance- related issues.