Mums, I just found out I m pregnant again - and I am not ready for the second one. I am thinking of an abortion. Any advice for me? What is the abortion process like?

I will advise the same here - pls don't abort, baby is totally innocent, beautiful life just gona get blown out like a candle in the wind if u abort. I am not sure abt the abortion process personally but too familiar with the miscarriage and need to wash process. Depending on the stage of pregnancy, it's usually giving u some medicine and then some cases cramp and then later dilate the crevice to manually scrap u clean - depending on the size of the baby - baby could be peeled and crushed and vacuumed out. Also consider that u run a risk of being infertile because the cleaning process is manually done - there is a small chance Gyne might over clean and then ur womb is injured so next time VERY HARD to get pregnant. Sure u can get a good Gyne but like I said, it's a manual process - so u run that risk. To be fair, I think it's a legitimate feeing abt not feeling ready for another child as everyone's support at home is different but I think that u should discuss w ur husband. Because having 2 is not possible to do it alone, think carefully. Once done cannot be undone - and u will always be wondering the "what if" forever