Mums, I just found out I m pregnant again - and I am not ready for the second one. I am thinking of an abortion. Any advice for me? What is the abortion process like?

Normally people will not encourage abortion coz it is taking a life away. The guilt that follows after abortion will not be any lesser... I'm not ready and not willing to have a third child telling everyone that factory closed after second but just like you, I'm loss when I found out I'm pregnant and wanting to abort the baby too. Even family and hubby agreed but in the end we cannot face the fact to kill a innocent life with our hands and to live a easier life by making an irreversible bigger mistake. We choose to have this baby in the end. Yes, we are not financially well to do, we have to be extremely thrifty and we cannot go for holidays and such but we are blessed to have our kids with us which a lot of couples cannot even have a child of their own. Family members will doubt that since we are not well to do our kids will not be happy but we do believe that we as parents will give our best and do our best to make our little family a happy family. Rich doesn't equal to being a happy family Poor doesn't mean that the family will be unhappy Ready or not is all in our own mindset Please think twice before making a decision.