Hey Mummy I seriously need advice and your iputs. My husband has a mistress. And is his colleague. Both of them are Police Officers. Married with my Husband coming 2 years. I have 15 month old lo. My husband is not coming home almost a month. I talk to my family n in law abt the situation. My in law ask me wat i am going to do. Whether to accept or divource. Coz the thing now is he is avoiding all sms n call from all of us. He doesnt want to come infront of us. I have made up my mind to get separation. But the thing is how to talk to him n get him to sign. Now our house is only 1 yr old that we bought from resale. I sms or call. He is not interested. I m seriously devasted. I really dont know wat to do. His parents also feel so sad n discusted.

First of all, you two have to go on separation. For the house, you have to make him give up the house so you can keep the house else u would have to sell it

You need to have face to face encounter to clear things up. Find a way to do so. But before that you should prep a list of things you need to do.

Dont waste time to file for separation. Just file for divorce straight away. This type of man better rot to hell. You deserve much better

just seek the divorce lawyer for advice. I believe they are able to justify and make your hubby agreed to come forward to settle it.

Do u want to try getting help and seek advise from marriage counselor or religious leader first?

Both in the public service line, I think if they get caught they will be sacked?

Yikes. Divorce the guy. He has no concern for you or LO anymore.

Divorce.. No point staying married with such a man

I will divorce Send the papers to his office

Try to find all options to save the marriage first