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hello mummy, saya nak meluah sikit boleh? Saya hrap lepas meluah segala stres boleh hilang. Malam tahun baru ni semua org bergembira tapi saya tidak . Puncanya dari ibu mertua saya marah sebab saya selalu ke klinik check kandungan, sebabnya dia cakap buat penat ulang alik hari hari, sebabnya saya ke klinik dihantar oleh ayah mertua. Jadi dari situ saya rasa saya ni menyusahkan mereka. Jadi malam tu saya menangis berabis, saya luah sama suami saya. Tiada respon diberikan, jadi esok nya (malam tahun baru) dia pulang kerja, jadi saya meluah lagi saya stres sangat duduk di rumah mertua dan rasa x selesa sebab saya rasa menyusahkan. Tapi suami tak respon pun sampai saya menangis tersedu sedu dan dia pukul saya ,dia tak suka tengok saya menangis. Lepastu dia whatsapp ibu mertua saya tentang masalah tu, lepastu ibu mertua saya datang masuk bilik dan tak mengaku, dia pula yang menangis. Dari situ saya rasa sangatt stress, sebelum kejadian ni pun saya memang selalu menangis sebab mertua tapi kalini saya tak tahan, saya stres sangat. Tapi saya risaukan keadaan baby saya. Sekian.

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Sayang, I'm so sorry you're going through this. First thing, please reach out to a doctor or counselor as soon as you can, okay? Stress macam ni during pregnancy kena monitor, it's not something to handle alone. I hear you. Being pregnant while living with in-laws and feeling like a burden is so heavy, and your feelings are completely valid. A few of us mums have been there juggling family dynamics while expecting, dan memang it takes a toll. What worries me more is how your husband responded, you needed support, not dismissal or worse. Honey, you deserve to feel safe at home and supported by your partner, especially during pregnancy. This isn't just about stress; please talk to a doctor or a trusted counselor about everything you've shared here, the constant crying, how your husband reacted, all of it. They can help you and baby properly. You're not a burden. Your health appointments matter. And you matter. Jangan tahan seorang-seorang, okay?

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