mummy feeling detach from mewborn

Hi mummies I am a ftm here. Is it normal for mummy to feel detached from newborn. When everbaby gets cranky and cry, i feel like im umable to handle baby and want to detached the baby. Like too scared to handle baby. It was all fine at thehospital but ever since we return home, with my mil's care for the babyand her ability to soothe the baby when he is crying, i cant helo but feel torn btw feeling detached, yet i want to fully take care of baby on my own after confinement ends so that i can bond with baby and form secure attachment with baby. Ifeel like if i continue with the helo of my mil, it cripoles my ability to care of the baby , bond and form attachment.

Vô danh

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People told me that baby like to "bully" ftm. They can sense our mood. So you have to be confident when you handling your baby. Don't let him feel your fear. He is more insecure and fear compared to us. He fear we drop him down, he fear bathing water too warm, he fear we don't feed him, and lot more. It's normal to fail and try again. Take the chance to learn from your mil and fail/learn as many times as you can. Tell her you want to be able to take care of own baby when she is not around after confinement. Stay happy and confident mummy. You can do it

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