Mummies, what are some of the concerns you have when planning a family trip to Disneyland with a 5yo and a 2yo?

Some of my concerns would be: 1. Would there be enough rides for the 2 yo to enjoy 2. Where would we stay. It needs to be at close proximity to the park or we will be wasting a lot of time travelling 3. The would the place we're staying be child-friendly/ i.e would they have child friendly meals, an in-room menu, child friendly amenities etc. 4. The day or two itself at Disneyland would need to be meticulously planned. It'll help to get hold of the map ahead of time and plan what time you will start and what rides can be done 5. I would by the fast pass so we don't have to stand in queue with a wailing child.