Okay truth be told I’m not fond of IFCs but I can also empathise as I felt the same way with my firstborn.
I hired a helper whom I could trust for my second and third.
Frankly, it’s tough finding a good IFC - they should be able to engage baby and stimulate her senses. That’s what I look out for - them talking to the babies, the artwork on the walls, what’s the schedule like, how the Teachers are, etc. Otherwise, I prefer keeping my children in the home which makes them less anxious too.
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