Hey mama, honestly the gap is quite tight but so many of us have gone through it and managed fine, so don't stress yourself out too much. My girl was 20 months when my boy arrived and the first year was definitely challenging with two in nappies and everything, but they're actually quite close now and keep each other company. The main thing is to be kind to yourself during confinement and ask for help whenever you can, whether it's from your hubby, parents, or even just bringing your older one to the polyclinic for checkups so you're not managing both at home alone all the time. Your toddler will adjust, and honestly most kids do even when the gap feels impossible at the start.
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