Hey, I appreciate na may ganitong open conversations na nangyayari sa community, pero honestly this is something mas better to discuss with your partner directly, walang one-size-fits-all solution kasi bawat couple ay iba ang dynamics at preferences nila, at what matters most is communication and emotional connection between you two. If there are specific concerns about satisfaction or compatibility, it might help to have that vulnerable talk with him first, or consult a sex therapist or counselor who can give personalized advice based on your actual situation. The good news is maraming ways to build intimacy beyond that, pero kailangan talaga ng open mind and honesty from both sides para magtrabaho.