Like to ask for CNY do you visit ALL houses instructed by your PIL or MIL during the 1st and 2nd day. CNY is the most hatred occasion to me because I find it very bored and tiring to bring our 2.5 yo girl to house visiting. As most of my hubby's relatives houses are not very well ventilated and from past 2 years experience my girl can look abit shag and sweat like mad, I am thinking to skip visiting some houses. My MIL is quite stubborn kind and won't listen to me and will insist to bring our girl along. What would you do if you are in this situation?

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I am in this situation too and I don't know what to do. My baby boy is about 1 yr old and is very difficult to bring him around. I do have the impression that my mil fil wants to bring baby all over his relative house (usually every yr we will go around visiting) to 'show' their grandson and mind you my mil side only she have 13 siblings let alone to mention my husband's 20++ cousins generation. Not that we are viewing every household but I find that Even going 3-4 is very tough especially when baby need to sleep. But, I will still go ahead with their plans and see if along the way if baby cranky then I will bring him home.

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