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Hi ladies, just need to ask generally is it wrong for me to tell my mils about my LO schedule so as when i come back from work she’s not asleep and me and lo have time to bond, i get to shower and feed her and both of us sleep together on time? My mils as her own way of raising and i did countlessly tell her my lo has a fixed schedule since im starting work and classes soon, itll be easier for me to bond feed and sleep my lo on time. Plus i am 7weeks pregnant so as the days go by lo is getting bigger and active and ill be tired easily. Any thoughts? Sometimes i feel theres like a friction between me and mils but i am trying to communicate with her as nicely firm and clear as possible but she’s so keen on her ways. Help? Advices?

Ashila Rosman

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Ya, alot of women encounter communication problem with their mil. The best way is to ask hubby to convey the message to his mother. Its not wrong for u to ask "helper" to match your timing but its difficult because your "helper" happens to be your mil. So i hope your hubby will convey a nice msg to her nntelling her why to let lo stay up later so u can accompany for awhile. :) try not to be the person talking.

Mil has ways to look after LO. When we the dil said smth not in their favour, thy will say, 'u r lucky enough to hv me to look after ur LO' ): I wish i would hv my own mum to help to look after 😭

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Your baby your rules, I think your mil should respect your wishes. Maybe ask your hubby to talk to her?

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