How often do you go for date nights after having kids? I find it so difficult now with 2. We hardly have couple time anymore :( all we talk about are the kids, the house, financial stuff basically all the boring bits. Anyone else feel the same?

Try to leave your kids to one of your family members. Plan in advance so that you both can then plan accordingly. Try to make it at least once a week. Other days also, if not a full fledged date, try to watch a movie together, go to gym or just spend some quality time.