How often do you go for date nights after having kids? I find it so difficult now with 2. We hardly have couple time anymore :( all we talk about are the kids, the house, financial stuff basically all the boring bits. Anyone else feel the same?

I have one very good recommendation that might help your situation. Find another couple that are in the same boat as yours (probably close friends or family) and make a deal that they take care of your kids when you go out and vice-versa. Since, this a very common issue that couple with kids have, you shouldn't have problem finding one. This will ease your mind and let you enjoy alone time with your partner. Hope this helps!!