Lonely pregnancy

In my 3rd trimester now. Through out the pregnancy, do you guys ever feel lonely ? It’s a different kind of lonely feeling. No matter how many people are around you, you just feel lonely and like you’re in this journey by yourself. Yes, your husband is around you but sometimes they dont feel or understand what we feel or what we’re going through. To them, we women are built to be pregnant. Not thinking we are also normal human being and also a first time mom, and new to this. The people around you are more to looking forward to the delivery of the baby, but never ask about the mummy’s mental health or condition. If they are ok, if they are coping. And when baby’s born, theyre gonna claim themself as oh im the aunt oh im the grandma etc etc when they have never been there for you throughout your pregnancy. #FTM

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yes i feel u! im feeling that too at times. im doing all the research myself, preparing everything for the arrival of little one. my husband just say he is tired from working 😞 have never read up on single thing abt pregnancy etc. never try to find out what i need or wat the baby need. im the one bringing up the topic all the time. sigh

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same here for my current one. After 2 miscarriage my husband dont really read up on anything. Not even how i feel at my first trimester so im just gonna sit down and wait till baby pop put and then give him a list of things to do. 😅