my husband and I had abit of struggle initially as well, but we sat down and had an open conversation about it. he shared that he felt helpless seeing my symptoms and being unable to do anything. so he became irritable also out of frustration when he want to help but feel like hes not appreciated (well i too busy puking ma). we also couldn't spend time tgt cus I have very bad morning sickness. on my end sometimes I wake up feeling like I'm on a warpath, I will let him know and tell him to give me some space and time to recalibrate myself. and i try to give alot of positive comments to motivate him to take care of me. HAHA.
it will get better, jiayou!